When attending a Hindu funeral, it’s important to adhere to the appropriate dress code as a sign of respect for the deceased and their grieving family. At Joseph A. Hey & Son, our experienced funeral directors have guided many families through Hindu funeral customs in Bradford and the surrounding areas. Here’s our comprehensive guide on what to wear to a Hindu funeral, ensuring you pay your respects while honouring traditional etiquette.
Understanding Hindu Funeral Customs
Hinduism, the world’s third-largest religion with over a billion followers, teaches that God is within each person and the purpose of life is to become aware of this divine essence. Central to Hindu beliefs is the concept of reincarnation, also known as karma, where the soul passes through a cycle of successive lives.
Hindu funeral rites aim to respectfully dispose of the body, allowing the soul to move forward. Traditionally, Hindu cremations would take place on the banks of the sacred Ganges River, but today most UK Hindu funerals involve cremation at a local crematorium.
Key aspects of Hindu funeral traditions include:
- Cremation within 24 hours of death when possible
- Open casket viewing before the cremation ceremony
- Family carrying the casket to the crematorium site
- Priest-led cremation rites and prayers
- 10-day mourning period for immediate family
Dress Code for a Hindu Funeral
When deciding what to wear to a Hindu funeral, remember these essential guidelines:
Wear White or Light, Subdued Colours
Unlike Western funerals where black is customary, at a Hindu funeral, mourners wear white. According to Hindu beliefs, white signifies purity, which is used to show respect for the departed soul. If you don’t have all-white attire, choose very light, subdued shades.
Both men and women should dress conservatively:
- Women may wear a plain white dress, skirt and blouse, or salwar kameez
- Men often wear a simple white shirt and trousers, or a white kurta and pyjama
- Avoid any bright colours, patterns, or flashy jewellery
Dress Modestly, Covering Arms and Legs
Hindu funeral etiquette requires modest attire. Choose clothing that covers your arms and knees. Women should avoid sleeveless tops, short skirts, or anything revealing. Men should wear long-sleeved shirts buttoned to the neck.
Open-toe shoes are acceptable, but it’s customary to remove shoes before entering the funeral venue. Bring a pair of socks if you prefer not to go barefoot.
Avoid Wearing Black
In Hindu culture, black is not a colour worn to mourn the dead. Steer clear of any black clothing as it may be viewed as disrespectful. Head coverings are also not required for non-Hindu guests.
If you’re unsure about specific attire customs, it’s always wise to check with the family or your funeral director for guidance. When in doubt, dress modestly in simple, light colours to show your respect.
Attending the Hindu Funeral Service
A traditional Hindu funeral usually lasts 30-60 minutes and takes place at a crematorium. The casket is often displayed in a simple open casket, adorned with a garland of flowers. The family will gather for final viewing before the cremation.
During the service, a Hindu priest will recite prayers and mantras. Guests of all faiths are welcome to attend, observing quietly. You’re not expected to participate in any rituals.
After the ceremony, the priest will lead the casket to the cremation chamber. Guests offer condolences to the family and depart. Later, the family will collect the cremated remains to scatter in a sacred body of water or another significant place.
Compassionate Hindu Funeral Services at Joseph A. Hey & Son
At Joseph A. Hey & Son, we recognise the sacred importance of Hindu funeral rites in honouring the deceased. Our caring team has experience arranging Hindu funerals that adhere to traditional customs while compassionately guiding families through their grief and loss.
We offer a full range of Asian funeral services, including:
- Arranging the cremation within 24 hours when possible
- Liaising with Hindu priests to conduct last rites
- Guiding family in traditional Hindu funeral etiquette
- Providing open casket viewing before the cremation
- Assisting with repatriation to India, if desired
Our knowledgeable funeral directors are here to support you in planning a meaningful Hindu funeral that honours your loved one’s memory and faith. Please reach out to us anytime to discuss how we may help during this difficult time.